Welcome to the Sub or Dom dungeon. Are you a patient, obedient submissive waiting to start your training? Connect with masters, mistresses or find a dominatrix near you. Unleash your desires with BDSM and fetish dating. There are no rewards for you just yet. Delve into submission and show our kinky singles you are ready to commit.
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Discover the world of BDSM. Experiment with bondage, whips and all other fetishes. Our BDSM dating site is your playground to explore your kinky side. It’s time to find your perfect playmate and the master who fits your desires. All you have to do is follow the simple steps to join Sub Or Dom.
STEP ONE
Submit To BDSM
Sign up and complete the registration form. It takes two short minutes. Tell us about you, your age, location and email address.
Join
STEP TWO
Complete Your Profile
It’s time to tell us about your kinks, fetishes, playmate preferences and submissive desires. Leave nothing to the imagination.
Complete
Step Three
Meet Our Doms
Be instantly matched with masters and mistresses who can fulfill your desires. Start exploring potential playmates.
Match
Step Four
Browse The Feed
The Dungeon is where to read blogs and articles. Post statuses, images and leave comments. Flirt, chat and experience BDSM dating.
Explore
Step Five
Upgrade To VIP
Intensify your BDSM experiences. Unlock the kinkiest features including unlimited private messaging & the who likes me feature.
SubmitThe Submissive Experience
We offer a thriving, kinky community. A place to express yourself and experiment with BDSM. Our features are designed to help you meet your master and explore the world of submission. Can you handle the heat?
Secure Private Messaging
Send and receive the naughtiest private messages.
Our Blog - The Reading Room
Read the hottest member stories, BDSM experiences and erotic fiction.
24/7 Customer Support
To ensure only genuine submissives, dominants and fetish lovers play here.
We are here to answer any questions you may have. You can contact our customer care team who are available 24 hours. We have listed some of our common questions below.
Sub Or Dom is completely free to join, message members, view their profiles and photos and arrange to meet up. If you want completely unrestricted communications (all limits removed) then we ask that you upgrade to become a VIP member. This is completely optional however, and you do not need to be VIP to use Sub or Dom.
A VIP member is one of the awesome people who have paid a small fee to upgrade their membership and help support the site financially. VIP’s get a load of great features to say thanks for their support such as unlimited messaging, priority customer support and can see who's viewed your profile.
Your personal email and details will never be shown on the site, and you have complete control over what you choose to share with other members. You can rest assured that your privacy is one of our prime concerns, and we will never share any of your information with 3rd parties.
Will you Spam my Inbox? No. Our email systems are SenderScore certified. We only use your email to notify you of any activity on your profile but you can always opt out.
Once you’ve joined for free, you will have access to a bustling, vibrant community of people looking to chat, make friends, casual fun and more. You can get to know other members by instant messaging and commenting on statuses. Our members also have some great blogs to help you get to know them better.
